[[International Day of Happiness is March 20th. ]
today is #internationdayofhappiness so for that I am not letting anything get in the way of my happy! I decided I’m GETTING IN that gosh darn pool! Cause holy smokes was it HOT. I should be avoiding chlorinated pools like the plague, but I went for it :) I feel like we always need an exception to the rule. especially on vacation. Right? It’s been 3 days straight of 95 degrees and I’ve held out for this long. But today I said, F* it. i’m getting in pool. AND. my DAD was also in the pool. I think I can count on one hand how many times in my 29 years I’ve had an opportunity to swim with my dad! So there. Definitely worth it.
I think it’s important to not get hung up on the rules ALL OF THE TIME. So we do what makes us happy. AND THAT’S OKAY.
and I am not saying that staying within my restrictions makes me unhappy. Cause that’s definitely not the case. I’m quite happy with my lifestyle + grateful to know what the tools are to keep me feeling well and in remission.
I’m just using today’s ‘happiness day’ as an excuse to get an extra bit of happy ;-)
I was only in there for about 10 mins so hopefully I didn’t do too much damage. Probably not any more damage than this snack and wine I’m having right now :P
So for my fellow #ibdfighters here’s what’s up with my snack (pictured above):
I’ve got lime flavoured bean ‘tortilla’ chips. (I’m trying to make a little bit more of an effort to stay away from corn. but when I don’t at the LEAST I make sure it’s non-gmo) beans are legumes and legumes contain phytic acid, lectins blah blah blah…so always in moderation with legumes is best for me. Definitely not a staple in my diet. I guess it’s a good thing I’m not vegan. I’m trying hard to avoid soy. Then there’s the salsa.. And tomatos are a damn nightshade. This is a tough one for me to stay away from.(and a new elimination food for me) Especially in the summer…who doesn’t love taco chips and salsa? (When I do have salsa it’s usually organic) And then there’s my fav. RED WINE. (organic kind, as much as I can). Gosh I love my wine and cheese. and this cheese is DAIRY, yes. I’ve been off dairy for the last 12 years. the only cow’s milk cheese I will cheat on is UNPASTEURIZED, ORGANIC cheese.
So back to happiness. I got to play tennis this mornin’!! which made me a happy girl. It kicked my butt, but it was awesome. I hadn’t played for over two years. can’t believe I got my dad out on the court. first time EVER. Insert another happy face here.
I feel like I’m often taking note of the things that make me happy. I am usually always mindful of the things and moments that make me happy. And often enough it’s the super simple stuff. Like waking up and seeing the sun. Or noticing the friendly smiling bus driver. AND it’s the things that matter… like spending time with my family. I’m in a constant state of gratitude towards my happiness, which in turn ends up yielding me more happy I think? Cause like attracts like. Right? It’s no secret. ;-)
How many people out there make it a priority to have happy in their every day life? Who else fights a battle with colitis (or anything for that matter) yet still remains happy? I know I’m not the only one. Talking about this reminds me of a friend who recently kicked cancer’s butt. From his diagnosis, thru the ups and downs, he kept such a positive attitude and I am so proud of him for that. The last thing we want to do is stress about our shitty diseases. It just adds to the problem. and I know, easier said than done. But it’s worth the effort to get there.
I value happiness. It’s something that I make a priority in my life. And when I’m not happy, I do whatever it takes to get me back there. And that doesn’t mean there’s no room for sadness and pain. We’re allowed to be happy and sad at the same time. In fact it’s an emotional state that I appreciate and value because I don’t think everyone can get there. Maybe it’s only ever happy OR sad for some?! I dunno. But my thoughts on happiness go on and on so I will save them for another post. ‘It’s better to feel pain than nothing at all.’ I LOVE that line and song by The Lumineers, Stubborn Love.
Okay, two things before I go:
how cute is that fox mug!! :P. Amazon showed it to me when I was buying my Boswellia extract supplements aka my FAV: Frankinsence (it’s for inflammation. and worth checking out especially if you have arthritis or joint pain.)
And to my Arizona pals, how the heck do you guys survive the 100+ heat in the summer!!!!? Common’ up to Lake of the Woods, Canada, my darlings. We’ll treat you to some perfect summer weather up in God’s country ;-)
Bye for now. xo.